What is the desire to get aroused or how does it affect me??.. (OnlyFans)

What is the desire to get aroused or how does it affect me??? I am not the kind of girl who can just want it all the time like some, for me I need a special situation or trigger action that will really awaken in me such a quantity of pheramones that I will start to desire it, when everything is simple it is not interesting, isn't it??? sometimes in sex the most pleasant thing is not the process itself but what leads to it!!!!🤤