Good Afternoon and Happy Saturday! So I have another though.. (OnlyFans)

Good Afternoon and Happy Saturday!  So I have another thought on how to get more out of life and your interactions with others - want to know what it is...?  Be the person that goes above and beyond.  I believe you will find that when you do, more times than not, the other person will naturally want to match your approach and either approach you at your level or attempt to exceed your level.  

If I'm not doing a good enough job explaining, let's look at the inverse of what I'm proposing.  Imagine what you'll get from someone by trying to skate with only the bare minimum.  How do you think the other person is going to respond?  Do you think they are going to be inspired to do more for you or are they only going to do what you did for them?  It's something to think about.  

My advice, is when in doubt, do more.  And it doesn't have to be a whole lot more, even a little more.  I'll tell you, it goes a long, long way and it is an easy way in life to get noticed, because those that put in a little more, or just a little extra effort, stand out from the crowd.  

And sure, what I'm saying, applies to the naughty world I operate, and even as I write, please don't take this as me asking you to do for more me.  If you haven't picked up by my various posts, while yes, what I write about does apply here, it more so applies to life in general.  To your daily interactions with people, to the way you perform your job, to helping out a neighbor or family.  The point is, don't do the bare minimum, and by all means, do not do the bare minimum and expect the other person to come back and go above and beyond for you.  

I'll share another practical example, as it relates to the online fantasy world of OnlyFans or whatever.  The last I checked I'm up to 2,700 fans - thank you, by the way!  Now let's say someone wants to attract my time and attention, again, this is just me being completely real with you - what do you think is the better approach?  

Approach #1 - Send a long message and tell me how much you want me to dominate you and call you a sissy

Approach #2 - Send a tip without a message

Now granted, both approaches are on the extreme opposites of the spectrum, but oftentimes extremes do a good job at clearly painting a picture.  If you can't guess, Approach #1 is not the right way, and Approach #2 is a lovely way.  

Now why is that?  You may be thinking, "well, fuck you, you just want my money", and well, there's a lot of that is true, but not your real money, I don't want your real money.  I don't want what you will use to take care of yourself or your family or your bills, etc. etc.  

I only want your, "Fuck Off Entertainment Money".  The money you would use to buy alcohol or spend gambling, etc. etc.  The point is I want you to play responsibly, just like when you walk into a casino in Vegas.  If you don't know your limits, you should seriously consider running away from OnlyFans or any other "adult entertainer".  Also, I would recommend staying away from strip clubs or Hooters LoL.  

But back to what I was saying, as I admit, I went off on a tangent.  Now put yourself in my shoes, if someone comes along, randomly tips you, you are intrigued, like, "who is that?".  The one thing I don't have much of is time, I've told you all that.  But when someone comes along and tips without a message, I naturally want to message that person, I want to engage with that person, I want to let them know how much I appreciate it.  The thing is, the person is suddenly mysterious and intriguing.  Why did they come along and act in a way that is so unlike the majority of everyone else?  

My husband has shared with me all kinds of insights from the book, "The Game", but a story that stands out to me, is quite fitting here.  Imagine if you saw a beautiful woman behind you at the bar.  Imagine if you turned around, asked her what she is drinking tonight, and then as the bartender asks for your drink, you communicate yours, and include hers as well, and then pay.  Now this happens every night, but imagine, when the two drinks come out, if you simply said, "enjoy your drink, I hope you have a great night", you smile and then you walk away.  Are you feeling me?  You're going to be different, and there's a higher likelihood that she's going to want to do something special for you, because after all, you gave without a catch or condition.

Anyway, this is getting long, and please know, I'm not a doctor, I'm not an expert, it is just me sharing life with you in a hope to help you have a happier and better experience.  As I've told you before, I'm a big believer in the mantra, "People Helping People".  

And no, though it is true, I am crafty and quite cunning, I truly do mean well, although, like you, after all, I have my faults, and I too am human.  Each day is an opportunity to live life, learn from our mistakes and work to make tomorrow better than today.  

By being here, you are part of my journey and I am grateful.  Thank you for listening and I hope you find value in my words...

XoXo,

KS