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The perverts have spoken! OK, so let's say you wanna get into kink. HOW? 

If you don't happen to already have a friend in the scene, your best bet is social media. If you're a single male, finding a party might be easy, but finding a likeminded partner isn't. Most sex clubs don't allow single men, and if they do, you bet your ass you're paying $$$ to get in, and sex isn't guaranteed. If you're kinky and don't mind navigating archaic layouts, Fetlife is a social network for kinksters. I've heard of Kasidie as well, but haven't tried it.

Maybe the people on Fet are too old or not your type of kink. If you're into swinging, Feeld is an app that's like tinder for couples. Easy to find swingers, or singles who want to join swingers for threesomes/etc. 

OK, you've got a date. Now what?

Events like this are mostly word of mouth and don't have a real address. I'd personally get started on the Events section of Fetlife. Skim through them, look through the guest list, RSVP. You might even find some kinky parties on Eventbrite, believe it or not. Now, your 1st party might not be stellar, but you want to find a network. Friends. Because friends will tell you when the next party is, who's gang bang is hotter for the price, and is free to hang out next weekend.

Let's say you want to get kinky but you don't just wanna go to an ORGY. That's ok! The Lair, Dungeon East/West, Sanctuary LAX, The Stockroom/Pleasure Chest all hold Intros to Kink classes. BDSM workshops, How to Flog, Discussion on Polyamory. You'll mee+ other beginners. If a class doesn't work, then try a Munch. A munch is a vanilla hang out for kinksters. "BDSM at Denny's", "Zankou Chicken and Swingers". Hit up the bar and mee+ other perverts just like you in a normal, public setting.

My first party turned out great, and it came from a guy looking for a girl to bring to a sex party. He found me on Tinder and we went, and I got like 5 numbers there. From then, I didn't really have to look up when the next shag party was, people would text me and invite me along. Most people prefer to not go solo if they can. 

The key to this is exploration. You might have fun! It might be weird. I've been to clubs where everyone was old as fuck and I left ASAP. My friend's first party was accidentally a trans only orgy. Sometimes it'll hit, sometimes it'll miss. 

What to bring: your own condoms, toys, lube. I personally bring my own baby wipes too.

Is there food? Sometimes! Gang bangs have snacks, orgies have drinks, BDSM clubs have none usually.

DO I HAVE TO HAVE SEX? Nope! You can just go and enjoy the community. I've brought many guys who just sat at the bar and chilled on the couch the whole time. There's been times I've went and just laid on the bed and talked to whoever.

Safe perv-ing, kinksters! DM me if you guys have any more questions, and TIP if this was helpful!! ^-^