Common Fan Fantasies and/or Mistaken Beliefs versus Actual R.. (OnlyFans)

Common Fan Fantasies and/or Mistaken Beliefs versus Actual Reality  - #1 of ?



This is the first in a possible new series of posts in which I will address common fan fantasies and beliefs that are literally anything at all except true ...or even remotely based in reality. If there is enough positive reaction to this, hubby and I may start making video clips of me doing them live, rather than via text like this.

Common Fan Fantasy or Mistaken Belief: What they see in professional scenes shot by production studios is "real". The performers actually dress in real life the way they are dressed in the scene, they actually act and talk in real life the way they do in the scene, and they actually enjoy all of the sexual scenarios and positions in real life that they perform in the scenes. 

Actual Reality: Nope. Not most of the time. The fact is, the performers are PAID to ACT OUT the scene exactly as it was written out ahead of time by someone else, not themselves - namely, directors at the production companies in question. (Naughty America, Brazzers, Blacks on Blondes, whatever, it does not matter, it’s the same no matter what.) Just like in regular Hollywood movies. 

The performers often have never even met in any capacity prior to the scene, they may or may not even be attracted to each other at all, and they certainly are NOT having sex that is NOT pre-scripted with assigned dialogue. You know...acting as in "acting". Sometimes it's fun and sometimes they are really into each other and the sex etc. but just as often it's just "another scene, another work day". 

For example, Tom Hanks has, at various times, played a woman, an astronaut, a mentally disabled man and a plane crash survivor on a desert island, among many other things. This does not mean he ever actually was, or someday wants to be, any of these things. He was not drawing from her real-life experiences or tastes. He was simply doing a job for which he was paid. It’s really that simple and there is ZERO difference in the porn world.

A excellent case in point - cuckold scenes. Never, ever once were ANY of the guys playing cuckolds in ANY pro scene I EVER shot or have EVER heard of were actually dating or married to me or the other female performers, NOR WERE THEY EVER STRAIGHT/HETEROSEXUAL. They were ALL, as in 100% of them, openly gay performers who, just like me and the heterosexual cast guys were PAID to ACT  that role out. Why? Because there were literally ZERO straight/heterosexual performers into sucking another guy's dick, eating his sperm out of a woman's pussy, or being treated like a wimp. ZERO. 

Is this really a surprise? Not to me and not to any of the male performers I ever once shot with. But you would not believe how many fans make it super-clear to me and other female performers that they think it is “real” and that either I or the guys I fucked in the scene are into that in our real lives. 

This is the reason hubby and I don't shoot, never will shoot, and never have shot any "cuckold'" scenes with "clean-up boys" for my own platforms. It's not realistic in the world-at-large sense and it's not us personally. At all. 

Don't get me wrong. If that's your personal fantasy, fine, each to his own. But it's just that...fantasy. But there is a real reason that ONLY openly gay male performers play cuckold "husbands" in pro scenes like that. And even then, they are still paid to do so because, likewise, no gay man would do it in the real world as they don't want a woman around at all, they just want to be with guys. And no woman in the real world wants to marry a man who cannot satisfy her and/or is not into women sexually. Ever. Period. No matter what your “friend” who “knows a guy or gal in the porn biz” said. 


In stark contrast, you don't see me actually fucking ANY guy I'm not into on some level in  ANY scenes I've EVER shot from 1998 to the present. Test shoots, which are usually blowjobs, handjob or tit-fucking scenes are intended to see if a guy is my type. If he's not, he doesn't get invited back to fuck me on camera. Period. That's reality. The total opposite of professionally produced studio scenes for which I was paid. And that's the reason I stopped shooting pro scenes in 2016 and went back to my roots of shooting self-produced content with hubby. 

To be clear, there were definitely some pro scenes I did in which were absolutely fantastic. I thought the guy was totally hot, I enjoyed fucking him,  he enjoyed fucking me, the dialogue wasn't silly, unrealistic, childish or ouright offensive and I was able to dress and wear my hair and makeup the way I actually do in my personal life - in other words, the way I do here. EVERY pro performer has some great shoots like that. And usually we end up fucking again, either off-camera in ur private lives or for each other's personal platforms, unpaid and unscripted, in the near future after that paid shoot in which we first met and had to "act". But the overwhelming majority of them were not even close to that and there were many, many others that were hard to get through at all and embarrassing to watch later...even literally impossible to watch later, in some cases. 

It's not unlike your favorite famous Hollywood actor or actress who, at some point in time, does one-to-several really disappointing or even totally lame movies. Those are "paycheck" days. It’s part of the business. And business is part of the real world. 

Fantasy vs Reality.