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Happy Saturday!!!  Ya'll have been giving me the best questions lately, and I feel like a kid in a candy-question-shop, lol!!  What to answer next!!??  Okay, so a question/topic I received a few times was asking about my thoughts on anal sex.  Even though there's nothing new under the sun, and the butt is definitely an erogenous zone, I think anal sex has become crazy popular and more common over the last 20 years.  But before that even in porn it just wasn't readily celebrated among heterosexuals'.  You didn't see much of it in the era of Jenna Jameson.  I feel like that era of adult stars were beautiful and sexy with good bodies, and they had beautiful, well-lit, happy sex with handsome men, lol.  Nowadays I feel like it has changed dramatically and I don't think for the better.  It's a lot of shock value type material and a lot of sexual acts that aren't particularly good for women.  And the worst part it is really deceives impressionable y0unger men on what real life sex is all about, and what real women are wanting (and not wanting).  They forget that adult actors are getting paid and the more extreme acts, the higher the pay.  So, that's that part, but back to anal sex for real life people.  My overall opinion is if it feels good and the woman is enjoying it, then it's a great thing.  Anal sex can be tricky, because sometimes it's wonderful and mind-blowingly awesome, and other times it burns and hurts, and you just want it out immediately. #facts.  Bottom-line, sex should always be about pleasure, so if anything causes yucky feelings and pain, that's not fun.  Over the years I've heard some men (no man of mine) say "ohhh, women's bodies are meant for it (anal sex), because they're used to penetration and it's right beside their vagina".  Umm, no.  That's totally wrong.  Again, you have understand that while the butt area is an erogenous zone, people receive pleasure from varying levels of activity back there.  For example some women may enjoy being teased in that area, and that might be enough for them (touching, rubbing, licking).  Others might prefer toys such as butt plugs, anal beads or your finger.  You really don't know until you ask and try it.  Personally, I think butt plugs are the absolute best!  For me they give me all the positive physical sensations of anal sex, but none of the burning or pain.  Obviously, butt plugs don't move back and forth on their own, they stay in place, but when a woman is wearing a butt plug during vaginal sex it produces a lot of really good sensations, and for the guy she's having sex with -- he enjoys the sensations he is feeling as well.  I've found it works well for both parties, and it's a introduction into more backdoor play.  Butt plugs come in various sizes, so I always buy different ones to see which I like best.  The biggest thing to remember is all women are going to be a little different in terms of what they like and how they feel about anal play.  It's best to be patient and keep in mind that pleasure and enjoyment for both you and your partner is the name of the game, period.