Some of you have been asking if I would do some "sex talk wi.. (OnlyFans)

Some of you have been asking if I would do some "sex talk with Dana" posts where I answer frequently asked questions from subscribers.  I thought Monday would be a great time to get started.  By far the most common question(s) I get asked are related penis size.  Does size matter?  What's the perfect size?  Am I doomed if I have an average sized or small cock?  Does my BIG dick turn you on (then sends pic).  Disclaimer: I can only give you "my" personal opinion.  Obviously, I don't speak on behalf of all women, only myself.  First of all, no matter what size your penis is you must learn to be a good lover, and that should be your focus.  Sex is a multi-faceted-complex sport, and it's not all about your penis.  There's nothing more disappointing to a woman than a big dick guy who's lazy in bed, because he has trained himself to believe that his penis alone will satisfy her, lol.  Umm, no.  The thing that fucks women's minds up the most (in a good way) is sexual passion.  When men know how to bring that emotional heat that transfers into physical action it's like...oh fuck, it's over, I'm dead.  Those are the encounters you never ever forget.  Sadly, you rarely see it in porn, because obviously porn isn't real and the actors typically don't have a connection, and it shows.  
    Back to penis size...for me I do like a big penis, because it feels good to be stretched, and I get aroused from challenging my body with pleasure and pain.  What's a big penis?  I think 8-10 inches in length is big.  But the truth is 2 guys could be the exact same length, yet feel totally different.  That's why I think most women are hesitate to claim a favorite length.  Girth, shape and hardness play VERY important roles!!!  It's interesting because my favorite realistic dildo is a thick 7", but it looks really big because it's so fat.  If I were building the perfect penis for me I would make the base the thickest part.  I love it when it gradually gets thicker as it goes in, and at the end of each stroke there's that extra wide surprise.  Mmm.  Anyway, moving on so yeah obvious it's nice to have a big penis, but please perfect your craft and learn to use your mouth and hands.  Kissing is soooo important, it's probably the #1 thing that gets me wet.  Kissing the neck feels really good too.  What can I do if I don't have a big penis?  If you don't have a big penis don't worry about it, because the truth is soooo many women DO NOT care.  I mean they don't care at all.  In fact some women prefer average to smaller, because it feels more comfortable for them.  I believe men and women can be more or less physically compatible down there, size wise, lol.  Perhaps vaginas are just reverse penises, so they come in different sizes and shapes as well.  That is why asking women about penis size is subjective and opinions vary.  I don't think men should put too much concern into it, because when women get together and the topic of sex pops-up, you rarely hear them mentioning penis size.  They tend to be more impressed by a guy's pussy eating / finger-banging game, and of course just the guy's overall personality and sweetness.  Direct your next sex questions to my inbox and I will answer in order they were asked.