Him: Do you know what time it is? Me: It’s 9:30 Him: No it’s.. (OnlyFans)

Him: Do you know what time it is?
Me: It’s 9:30
Him: No it’s 9:30! 
Me: ya I said that 
Him: no you said 10:30
Me: um no I said 9:30 *ya def old man 
Him: oh ok 

*inner thoughts insult 

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I make these hilarious #domesticviolence memes which sure do crack up other victims and other people may find in “poor taste,” but this is a problem all of us are going to end up on one side or the other at some point in our lives. 

There are different stages to DV. 
1️⃣control 
2️⃣separation 
3️⃣death 

Notice how ***abuse*** is **not** in there? Neither is ***bullying*** 

It’s is ***control *** that is the defining factor in domestic violence. Abusers freak the fuck out when they have a situation beyond their crystal ball 🔮 capabilities. They need to be **right** because being right means they can **predict outcomes**. 

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*that Adorabella girl is a nasty bitch here let me show people* then the control freak walks up to me and takes my cotton candy and then when I say HEY YOU CUNT! They film that and make a TikTok out of me yelling and post it up #bully #abuser 
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Abusers look for people like me. People who make outrageous claims like being ***adorable*** and ***perfect*** because they know they ain’t that and wouldn’t it feel oh so good to take down that bitch that’s above them! 💃🏻Funk yeah they can already hear the music 🎶 

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When my bf and I had the mis-heard time incident, it struck me how often tiny little things like that happen in life without being corrected the healthy way. He mis-heard me; correction made and **accepted**. Entire matter closed. 

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Him: what time is it? 
Me: 9:30
Him: 10:30?!
Me: ugh no leave me alone!
Him: why’d you say 10:30? 
Me: for fucks sake its 9:30
Him: you said 10
Me: sure
Him: you can be nice you know 
Me: you can fuck off you know 

🔁🔁🔁🔁🔁this cycle will never end🔃🔃🔃🔃🔃🔃 it began with him mis-hearing me and ended with him being a dick and me being a bitch. Over NOTHING. 

It does not “take two” people to cause domestic violence just because two people are there. It takes one: one asshole and then one person to be shoved inside. 

It takes two people to form a healthy relationship because it takes two people to communicate in the proper way.